Catching Up

Um…how’s it going?  Long time, no blog.  I missed you.  Sit down and let’s catch up!

Where the hell have I been for the last 11 months, you may ask.  I’ve simply been busy with life.  Work is busy, social functions are plentiful, and the world keeps turning.  I’ve thought about blogging dozens of times, but blogging never made its way to the top of my priority list…until now.

So let me catch you all up on what’s gone down in my life over the last year.  In the blog I posted on November 8 of last year, I said, “I hooked up with a hair stylist from Fullerton, which is a college town not too far from me. She’s fun and crazy in the bedroom, but not relationship material at all. She has some kink to her, but she’s not into any heavy impact play…She’s fun, but she’ll run her course fairly quickly.”  Well it turns out that I was mistaken.  That hair artist started out as a booty call and then developed into something more.  She gave heavy impact play a try and took to it well.  As I tell anyone that’s never experienced D/s before, you can’t dip your toe into this type of relationship.  Driving the road of BDSM with one foot out of the door isn’t going to give you the full feeling of living the dynamic, so get your feet in the car and drive.  She did just that and we had a fun 9 months of adventures, positive energy, and good times.  Unfortunately, she found out that 24/7 D/s wasn’t a long-term need for her and our relationship ended.  It was sad, but I appreciate that she gave it a really good try.

The men’s group, to which I belong, leased a office/warehouse combination to use as our clubhouse.  We’ve been working on the construction for a few months and things are coming along really well.  We’re planning an opening party in February for us and our girls.

I’ll bring you up to date on a few other things in separate posts…and let’s not be strangers!


6 thoughts on “Catching Up

  1. I discovered your blog shortly before you stopped posting and I was nearly lost. I am SO excited to see you’re back. I can’t wait to read more, and see how life is treating you. You truly are intriguing to me, Thank you for coming back, (:

  2. As subs, we tend to see Doms as strong and infallible, and many Doms present themselves as such. I have really enjoyed reading all your posts and seeing how much emotion, care, responsibility and self-reflection a Dom puts into a relationship. It is truly eye-opening and amazing. I am glad you are blogging again. My Sir and I have begun blogs and I think you guys would relate very well. You may find him at

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